K this thread really needs to be renamed after my apartment drama rather than my relationship nondrama. Maybe I should move to a housing / tenant / landlord board. Wonder if there is one? Hmmml.... The place in Weehawken NJ with the gorgeous views just called me and dropped the price $400. I told him I'm looking at some places tomorrow that are less than that and he said to call again before I take something. Looks like he may be getting ready to make a deal I may not be able to refuse. This positive thinking thig is working already. It's still hard to know if Jersey is a good idea. Worst case scenerio, Brooklyn is always here waiting to come back to. He wants a 2 yr lease tho. and that can be a long time if I hate being on that side of the Hudson. And it's really really far away from Mark and his entire circle. I may never run into him or see him again. And the notion of dating from 2 apts. would not be a very easy idea anymore. Who has the crystal ball around here? The suspense is killing me. What's going to happen?