I think you're right about keeping your focus and not reading into too many things...it can get you into all sorts of trouble far too quickly - and right now I think the best thing for you to do is to continue doing what you've been doing - DBing...taking care of yourself - allowing your W her space - and staying calm and self assured.
Sorry you don't get to see your boys as soon as you planned - but hopefully it will work out for you to get an evening or two with them.
You're a good man, JR. I have a lot of respect for you.
