So I read through this last thread a couple of times and by the time I finished you seemed to answer your own question. I don't know you or your situation very well at all but 3 things jump out at me.
1) You don't seem detached. 2) You seem like an awesome person and I can't imagine you ever going out with a person that doesn't even ask in a genuine and compelling way. 3) You don't seem detached.
...and no you don't curse too much. Works fine for me
Ha, ya, I hear you on the detachment BUT, the truth is that I am happy. I am ok without him. I am attracted to other men. I am making plans for my life without him.
I do not foresee my little of window of possibility closing off any time soon. I am just a hopeless romantic and I think how the f do I know where he will be or I will be further down the line? Something like 1/5 of all divorced couples remarry each other...
Of course I would love to ease my childrens' suffering and honor the vision and the vows H and I took...but, I am in reality. Same thing as the quote I just posted on your thread.
I am in a sort of open space of possibilities in every area of my life...career, where I will live, relationships...everything is starting over...so I feel sort of weightless.
But, I am still a living breathing human and I know that I am interacting with another whom I have a great deal of history and connection too (2 kids and not divorced yet) so I spin just a little.
It is hard for me to be decisive (can you tell) but like I said, I've handled multiple situations as of recent and done it with no fanfare, no drama...it is awesome.
Anyway, leaning toward, "thanks but I have plans."
