Is his ego just so distressed that he needs to know he can get me to go out with him if he tries hard enough?
Oh and the play is a friend's play...so weirdness there...I mean am I publicly displaying my approval of H's behavior? Does it matter?
AAK - I was thinking both of these things when I read your post a little while ago.
You have been doing so well. You and "we" both know that he is not a classic WAS... This guy is immature, flashy louse. THINK about where you've dug yourself out from. OF COURSE, he wants to go out with you, because you're no longer making yourself available to him , NOT BECAUSE (yet) he knows he screwed up, and wants to make nice.
AND, Gosh, do you want to validate the "okayness" of him, by being actively, publicly FRIENDY! I think not.
Oh, there's poor, AAK, accepting her breadcrumb of attention.
YOU ARE DOING SO GOOD! Your kids need you to continue being the pillar of stability. YOU need you to continue being the pillar of stability.
If there's a vote being taken, NO.
I'm just so impressed with how far you've come. A little glitz and shine your way is not always good.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
