Round 1: 1. he made no effort to spend special time together the night before he left 2. he responded with coldness to my upset about #1 ----- Round 2 7. He didn't call for 3 days 8. He responded with coldness to my upset about #7
It sounds like things have gotten better between you in the past year or 2. Did you tell him beforehand you wanted to spend time together the night before he left? If so, what did he say to that?
Yeah, so getting upset in the way you did doesn't work from what you say. With all the possible choices you could make, I think it seems like it might be a good idea to try something different that's not so drastic as moving out or dating someone else. Like using a hammer on a fly or something. Karen
