back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

So I have a new found appreciation for all thoughs on this board who have WAS having EA or PA. I am stumped on how the LBS can stay quite while the craziness surrounds them. I can barely contain my anger as my W acts as if nothing is wrong. Using her freinds to get out of the house to eventually meet up with OM. Using an extra phone she bought and said she ggave to a womans shelter when were began our reconciliation period. It was a corner stone that we were build our new marriage on.

But of course she never really did. Now she is playing the hide and seek game with the phone and charger. I am having a hard time not confronting on this. Keeping this to myself is a 180 for me.

The small goals I set for myself for m sitch have starting happening. W being more talkirive, carrying on simple short conversations, recieving hugs and simple pecks. Things seem lighter but I still feel the weight of W wanting it all to be good so it ends nice and neat and the fairytale divorce can then take place. My hat is off to all those on this board dealing with all this pain and anguish. God bless, protect and guide you all.