You just need to start working towards FORGIVING what she did for yourself not her.
PMA,
Maybe it's the lack of sleep or the pitcher of beer I had with dinner tonite, but I don't follow what you are saying here.
Why the heck would I ever forgive her? For me or for her for whatever?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13