Found out he hasn't signed a lease yet, has to write a letter to the apt complex - he doesn't do those kind of things during the week. Then I heard the rest of the message from the other night which I thought I had erased, and even tho he is saying we are miles apart right now and he can't live with me, he did make an appt for MC and invited me to show up and work things out over the next 6 months and then take 6 months to see how things go.
Will have to consider the options - I refused his offer to work things out right now after he unilaterally decided to call off the move. I am trying to make a statement about how I want to be treated - I also told him that I don't want to be in any relationship where anger is uncontrolled. Right now there are two reasons I see to go - one is to make my point in front of the therapist which is only an attempt to control him, and the second would be to say that I am still in this game which completely undoes what I said before and keeps things the same. Does anyone see it differently?
