Well she called a little while ago and talked w/ my D. She asked my D if she could speak w/ me. I shook my head no. D told her no. She insisted w/ my D several times--let me speak to him NOW! Nope no dice. (D told me all this after the phone call) D asks for my email address to give to the wife--come on, she already knows this. D comes to me after the phone call and says she thinks I did good? I said, what do you mean? She says, by not talking to her. She treated you like a doormat. What??? I was stunned. This 13 year old girl has seen this more clearly than me? Wow.
So, the wife emails me and basically it's a bunch of crap that didn't need to be said about my daughter. I find it amazing that now that the OM is gone she suddenly cares about spendng time w/ my D.
It was very hard for me to not talk to her on the phone but I think I'm doing the right thing. Hopefully, this will get easier over time.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
