Not sure what to do now???

[Faith2010]

Remind me again why it wouldn't just be easier to start over with someone else.

I wish I had a good answer for you. The best I can do is: the grass isn't always greener on the other side. We all think we have problems then we learn of others problems and think "well, maybe my problems aren't so bad" or "Man, I'd never be able to handle THAT!"

DR talks about how children are better off with both parents. Also, a divorce doesn't end your R with H, it just changes it. You guys will always have a relationship because of your S.

I admire you for hanging in there for so long. I'm having a hard time and it's only been 3 months.

At the very least you know you're trying to make it work. Eventually some of us will have to decide when is enough enough. Only you can answer that.

I think you're doing great. My sister dealt with a MLCer who was involved in an EA and maybe a PA. After 15 months he finally came around. There are happy endings. Hopefully you will have one.

I can't remember, are you going to IC?

btw..I know what you mean about obsessing over the OW. I did at first, laid off for a while and somehow she got back under my skin. Now I've laid off again and hope I can stick to it. Totally not worth my time, energy or effort.

Hang in there. If you're on FB, look me up...I'm a fan of Divorce busting.