What you said makes SO much sense. I do obsess over it and I am really not being sincere in the changes I am making. I need to put my plan in action now and not worry about him. It really hit me what you said because I am not practicing what I preach. Not whole heartdly. I am doing what I always do. Talking instead of doing and I think that is what he is talking about..not following through with my actions. I am second guessing myself constantly.