WAW wants to get togeather?

[wifeleft2009]

What is your suggestion, given we had no words now and she did not appear she's been to her job today or yesterday Im curious what happened to her. Is guilt setting in?

Did she ditch town?

What do you think about no contact is that better? Gives her a chance to miss me and the kids ?

[Steve McQueen]

your earlier interactions with your wife make a whole lot more sense now. Thanks for posting what you have.SMcQ

[wifeleft2009]

your earlier interactions with your wife make a whole lot more sense now. Thanks for posting what you have.SMcQ

can i ask how? because she is torn between me and another person? please spell it out so I can understand.. I feel like im in a fog and everything just makes no sence

[Steve McQueen]

Because in your earlier posts it seemed to me your wife wanted you to pursue her. Now, it makes me realize something in my situation. I have a 'buddy' who would do the same thing to me. Text messages like, "do you miss me," "what are you doing," what are you doing tonight?" The odd phone calls. what the heck i tought. It made no sense at the time to naive steve. I come to find out her husband was out of town. she was looking for attention. she was pursuing to be pursued. I dont have a window into your or your wifes life; just realization about mine.

SMcQ

[wifeleft2009]

you might be right... i would "like" to belive my W is not in love with this guy but in lust. still loves me but is in that fog where she belives she loves both of us.... she looks for the bad parts in our marriage and only see's the new trouble free side of this new guy and cant decide

[bluerain]

I really agree that you shouldnt be doing anything to make her life any easier. I cant imagine that she is "in love" with an 18 year old boy. And I cant imagine that he is in love with the idea of being involved with a woman 10 years his senior, with 3 kids! Affairs always fail, and this one is just a joke!

Is she buying alcohol for these kids? Turn her in!

My suggestion is to go dark, pitch black even. If she wants to talk to the kids, she knows how to reach them.

[Kimmie Lee]

Go dark, indeed!

If she really wanted to see the kids, nothing would stop her. Look how much energy she puts into her other....ahem.....activities.

[wifeleft2009]

I guess I have no real choice since she seems to have disappered off of everyones site. Her dad went over tonight to see if she was there but I never heard back. Just what her mom said. (she won't answer her phone and her mom drove by her work both days just like her friends noticed too)

Lol then her mom chewed me out for not talking to W little sister more she thinks i'm mean or hate her I guess (I'm shy and not out going until I know someone). So out of the whole family the little sister is upset I don't have anything to say to her.

Oh yeah she buys the booze but have to call the police while they are drinking otherwise I guess she can have it there "for her self"

she thinks she loves him. She posts that on her MS I am surprised this has not failed yet! Come on since last winter. But I guess it's a loose relationship where he has his gf and W buys gifts to win him. I think once she gets locked up looses apt or some major thing he will hit the road and she won't ever see him again after all he is jobless and homeless

[wifeleft2009]

ok she lost it! lost her job wont respond to anyones calls or texts everything! she is MIA not one person has seen her, she is not at her APT (I had her old friends go looking) her mom went and the manager let her in. no W! she just took off and her boss found out she stold a bunch more money... where is it all??? drugs?? i think she is on the run

[bluerain]

Wow, she is setting herself up for a huge crash and burn. Prepare yourself dude! This is going to get really ugly if thats true that she stole money from work. Does her boss want to press charges?