You have been on one heck of an emotional roller coaster with all of this and it really seems like your H does not give a rat's A$$ about how you feel.
I agree with everybody that you H is just stalling on you and going to the MC because he probably knows deep down that the MC is not going to be in his 'corner'.
Question???? If you give him a week and you set if out in front of him what you want from him, then what makes you think that he won't just 'play' you and act the way you want him to just long enough to make you stay? Just trying to look at it from all angles.
Have you been to see your IC? What is the IC saying about him stalling, you giving him more time, you moving out?
I am thinking about you and praying for patience for you in this hard time. I would pray for strength for you but if your anything like me, you might beat your H if you had the strength. (LOL on that joke I hope!!!)
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
