Separated 4 Months - Looking for Advice??

[neversaydie63]

Yes, it has already been a rough road and I hope it does not get any worse but I guess if we move into the Big D Phase, it could.

Not really sure what she wants?? We went to MC for almost a year and we ( I ) more than her changed a lot of things but it always felt like I was pushing rope uphill. I really only think the MC works when both parties want to make changes, not just one. Pretty much every change she asked for was done, but she would never admit that there was much change and that was simply just not true.

I have a good job and she really did not work, we have no childeren so she had lots and lots of free time on her hands --- I dont know, maybe too much free time!
Maybe she was/is not happy with herself and is going through a midlfe crisses.

I really wish I knew but I dont and I am not sure she knows.

NSD