Listen, what you are feeling is all normal at the beginning of this. We are just trying to save you some heartache and some backsliding that can slow down this whole process.
When you continue to have relationships talks, it does a lot of things. It makes her think you are not hearing her, it is pressure on her, you are seen as pursuing and weak, it doesnt help her see things, it just validates the reasons in her head why she wants out. So stop it.
You are in control of yourself and your actions. So, do whatever you have to to stop yourself from starting those conversations. Go for a walk, call a friend, write in a journal, pray, play with your kids, get it?
And if you go tomorrow, NO RELATIONSHIP TALKS!!!!!! Be your best self, be confident, strong, self assured. Look your best and be personable.
You can do this if you stop making excuses. Get on board here. YOu'll be glad you did.
