I don't think he'll blow it if he goes away alone with her...think about it.
Good point. This is an event that he's expecting her to attend. She has a lot of pressure on her from him. I guess from me as well although I am trying to back off, she still feels the pressure because she knows that I love her and want to save our marriage.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09