So if he has made progress but has fallen back under pressure...maybe he is under a lot of pressure? Maybe you are adding to the pressure? Not busting your chops but does it make any sense to wait until he returns and things settle back to normal and then see how he acts toward you? Maybe things will improve greatly upon his return. If not, boots start walkin

He SHOULD make the effort, he should WANT to make the effort, but is it possible there is his side of the story to look at. What might that be.

Just sayin' as a former stupid husband...husbands can be pretty stupid.

I think Gucci time is a balancing act. If you can say it is that much of a ploy maybe you are not ready yet? I am asking, not telling. I think Gucci time might work best when you are closer to the F it zone.

Yeah, I am still on the merry-go-round with the latina.


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted