Bought H's anniv. present from Amazon today. As planned, it will arrive on the doorstep Friday with me not here to claim it. Let him wonder about the box...
It's grill basket for fish/veggies. 20 bucks, useful, manly, not excessively romantic for the state of the sitch, etc. I will heat things up a lil with the card, tho. I haven't found the right card yet, but I'm the type to get a card along the lines of "You make my crayons melt" or some such.
You know, maybe I *am* detached afterall? The aniv. isn't bugging me at all. I'm not expecting anything. If there's a romantic dinner or a cuddle in the hammock, cool! If there's a card, cool. If there's nothing - well, not a big deal.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137