Not that you asked but I'm giving my take on this -
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Perhaps it is time to separate before you hate her.
I think he could knock her socks off first but we'll see.
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Also, she can't treat you as a babysitter unless you let her.
Absolutely right!!!
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Plan to be away from the house a few nights a week and go somewhere.
Don't do tit for tat (sorry I said tit...calm down)...
You are the grown up. Do what makes sense. Be reasonable. Two VERY young children. Just absolutely make sure you're taking care of yourself and not accommodating her unreasonable expectations regarding her social life. Two young kids with two parents each out a few nights a week is f*cking with the kids. Don't play with that. I've been out once or twice a week since H and I separated and it drove/drives him crazy...and I have fun. But my kids need their mom. And in your case, they need you.
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I would not date because I don't think it is ethical to play with another's emotions that way. And you are married so of course sex with someone else is off the table. Divorce and have all she sex you want. With willing partners that appreciate what you have to offer. Now that will certainly make you feel better, but it will be hell for you kids.
Yep.
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I think the best option though is get this marriage to a stage where you have all the sex you want with a willing wife that appreciates what you have to offer. But, I'm not smart enough to tell you how to get there.
Ha. You are plenty smart! But with a goal of having "all the sex you want with a willing wife that appreciates what you have to offer"...
Good luck with that. There are two people involved, you're never gonna get ALL of the sex or anything else you want...but, you can get a lot of great sex and be appreciated. Or you can get a blow up doll but she wont necessarily express appreciation.
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