Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

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Perhaps it is time to separate before you hate her.

Also, she can't treat you as a babysitter unless you let her.

Plan to be away from the house a few nights a week and go somewhere.

I would not date because I don't think it is ethical to play with another's emotions that way. And you are married so of course sex with someone else is off the table. Divorce and have all she sex you want. With willing partners that appreciate what you have to offer. Now that will certainly make you feel better, but it will be hell for you kids.

I think the best option though is get this marriage to a stage where you have all the sex you want with a willing wife that appreciates what you have to offer. But, I'm not smart enough to tell you how to get there.