oh and the other think i would like to do is give her the divorce...let her go out and find out how much happiness she is going to find...(more ranting)
Good, healthy, normal AND, I'm gonna dig in here.
You are married...it gets touch sometimes, you said it yourself. Your issue with her is her detachment from reality. You are a mature, intelligent adult, dammit who had to ask if you should sleep with a 25 yr. old because your marriage has hit a rough patch...
Hmmm...goose, gander...
Listen, while you are married, living under one roof, let the sex go for a second.
A) This is so damn common after the birth of second child; if everyone divorced at the juncture you're at, the divorce rate would be over 50% (hmmm...)
B) You have an opportunity to take the lessons given here and man up. Are you gonna choke and blame it on her???
Ya, get your confidence boosted (flirt, go out), watch 9 1/2 weeks or Nailin' palin or whatever gets you off, but do NOT let sex (or lack thereof) be the demise of your marriage.
This is the for worse part and you have by no means done your due diligence. I might get slammed for that. It is just my opinion and really only you can decide but I think you've got a last shot here to make a plan and stick to it.
So, what's your plan? What have you gleaned here? What resonates? What are your goals for the next week or so? Try to get specific.
