Be the better option. Feel free to rant and rave here. That is what this site is for. Better to do it here than to your W. But keep in mind your ultimate goal.

Sleeping with a 25 year old is not going to bring you closer to that goal. And we all know that relationship won't last anyways. All it will do is further hurt things.

Let the 25 year old go. Focus on you and your kids. Be the best dad possible and a man that your W would be a fool to leave as 25yearsmlc always says.

You will be far more rewarded by not succombing to this temptation than by getting a hour of physical pleasure out of it. For one, you won't have to live with regrets and explain anything to your kids or your W. Also, you are not a hypocrite if you stay away from the 25 year old.

I don't see anything good coming from pursuing another R with another woman. Some may disagree. But that is my take.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...