I need some help on next steps. There is one thing that seems important near-term. She has the kids this upcoming weekend. There is a big memorial camping trip that he is expecting her to go on. I know she's worried about how to handle it. She feels like her options are lose-lose. Make up an excuse and lie. Go and hurt me. Tell him she can't go because it will hurt me and consequently hurt him.
Should I volunteer to take the kids so she can go or leave it to her to figure out what she wants to do?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
