Aren't you a fin advisor? What do you tell your clients that have been thru the last ten years in the market? The volatility works both ways. What's the trend since 1802 been? When is the best time to invest more? Aren't bear markets part of the process?
Ok I hear you and appreciate you taking the time to help me...but this is a relationship not a stock...this isnt a little rough patch. its someone who you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with, get abducted by aliens.
I know others totally relate to what im writing, its like someone flicked a switch and dr jekyll went to hyde.
while im not perfect i was always a loving husband and dedicated family man...flawed but proven to be able to change...i see this as a level of betrayal and feel that my W is a spoiled brat…poor her! What a shame! Such a terrible life she has! Boo hoo!
what this comes down to in my sitch..is someone who asked for and got a family with two gorgeous kids and wasnt prepared for the fact that life is really tough...relationships are not like they are in the movies. there are bills to pay and kids to raise and jobs to do.... and she cant handle that
so instead of acting like a responsible adult she turns into a WAW
all i see is a selfish spoiled brat! thanks for letting me rant
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