This did make me think about my own situation and the possibility that my husband may be suffering from some kind of depression.
Last year we put S16 on meds for anxiety and it's helping him. H didn't believe in meds but even he sees a difference in our son. I am SO HOPEFUL that one day H will be open to trying meds as well. But I don't recommend you suggest it to him... that didn't go over too well!
H 51/W 43 Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs 2 kids- D18 & S16 "I want out" July 2008 "I want out" Dec 2008 "I want you out" Aug 2009 Still in house thru it all