Busting My WAW

[LucasE]

LTL, how are you? My assessment of your situation is that it sucks. It seems to me that your W is trying to wear you down. She might be trying to get you to end the M. I wasn't "man" enough to end mine when I was in the same situation. I waited for her and now we will be D within a few months. I am still waiting for that date to become convinced that she is really done. I wish that I had taken the advice to let her go two years ago when she wasn't sure what she wanted. I waited. I gave her everything. Now she knows for sure what she wants and she can't get there fast enough. I am upbeat. I am good looking. I am fun. She is gone. What got me about your situation is that the kids are now taking on her darkness. You being bummed about her isn't going to help. You have got to move on. Only that will give her a chance to come back. She isn't coming back to what she has now. Let her go. Don't leave the house. Show the kids how to handle this tough situation. With grace and honor. And most importantly, listen to Sara's above advice. Thanks for listening. Good Luck.