Originally Posted By: Serenity13
H has a birthday on Sunday...
Do I acknowledge it or just allow the kids to get him a card?
Not sure what to do at this junction...

My H had a birthday last weekend. I got him a very simple generic Happy Birthday card, signed it with "hope you have a good one" and left it where he'd see it.

It was sad for me bc I always take time to get a really good card and I always sign it with I Love You but this time- I did neither. Apparently he found it bc later he said thank you for the card, to which I replied you're welcome.

The kids got him a card on their own as well.

For what it's worth...


H 51/W 43
Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs
2 kids- D18 & S16
"I want out" July 2008
"I want out" Dec 2008
"I want you out" Aug 2009
Still in house thru it all