Separated 4 Months - Looking for Advice??

[neversaydie63]

Hey Everyone,

New here and I did post in the newbie’s section but also wanted to post here and hopefully get some more help and feedback.

Wife moved out over 4 months ago but we are still talking and seeing each other. We are no longer seeing our MC but she is seeing a new C on her own. Over the last 4 months since we have been separated, we have had our ups and downs and this has been the most difficult time of my life but I still love her and I want this marriage to work and I want her to move back with me.

Here are just a few questions that I was hoping to get some feedback on:

How often should I call her? Is once a day too much?
How often should I see her? (I travel for work so I am gone typically 8 days/nights/month)
I am still worried that she is seeing /talking to her “Psychic” friend even though I told her a few months back that if she continues to talk to this woman, than our marriage will never work – she promised she has not (a few months ago) but I am not sure I believe her. Should I confront her about this again or just work on me and my 180’s and the do’s and don’ts in Michelle’s book?

Sometimes I want to get out there and start dating but I think that would be a mistake at this point.

Sorry for all the questions, it just that I never thought I would be in this situation and I am still not sure why we are where we are. Initially, when she left she said the reason was because “she needed to find out why she allowed certain things to happen” along with the usual “I was too controlling, passive aggressive, overbearing, angry…etc.” stuff.

Any and all input is very much appreciated.

Thank you
Neversaydie