I've learned, and am still reminding myself daily, that trying to figure out what went and currently is going throught the head of your ex is a futile and maddning waste of time.

I just live by, it is what it is and no longer my position to wonder 'what if'.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11