Thanks Kat. Will try that... basic friendship. I know he wants to hold on to the key. He hasn't said anything but I know he does. I'll try to be casual about it as possible but I know he won't be. Gosh, I'm such a chicken.
So I chatted with H at lunch and wow! I read somewhere that guys like straight talk and its true. H was perfectly fine with my text. I totally expected an attitude about it. He even said how could he not understand. It actually made me feel good. He even understands that he has left me with little choice. Maybe this is couple with the fact that he's been agreeing that he knows he gotta stop giving ow so much $ and he's left without too. And honestly in his mind, he really thinks he has to do this for his son to have a place to live, while she's uses it all to her advantage. But like the saying goes, "even the longest rope has an end." I must admit H is in a tough position b/c he wants the best for his child, which is understandable, but the child has a mother who cannot give him the best, and H already has another comfortable life that he wants to return too. The tough predicaments these WAS get themselves into.
