It's possible that when you go further down the rabbit hole with BF that there will be unbelievable sexual fireworks... like they talk about in passionate marriage. But he will need to deal with whatever is making him uninterested in sex right now as part of starting that new journey together with you. Is he still in therapy? I can't remember... If I was in your position, I would fly with BF to colorado and meet with Mr. Schnarck!! (who is coming out with a new updated passionate marriage any moment now!!!)
New underwear is exciting!! I'm a big fan of Mary Green boyshorts... they are superhot without being uncomfortable.
congratulations on the new job! It sounds fun!!!! love, T