Dreams of a New Normal...

[Kalni]

I am late (time zones) but a&k, eventhough I f@cked up in my sitch, your sitch seems so clear to me... Your H DEMANDS that you treat him like you have been lately.
Tough "love", boundaries, detachement, "get your sh!t straight mister", no enabling of any kind (incl related to kids), a challenge, everything in that direction...

So, dont doubt yourself, stand firm. Be a loving....bitch, LOL
K

[aliveandkicking]

Ya, I know how to do the "bitch" part really well...it is the "loving bitch" that I'm figuring out.

[pearlharbr]

AAK

Haven't been keeping up with you in a while but decided to drop in and see where you're at...what a turnaround! Love the kung fu attitude. Keep on taking names and kicking ass! (Or is it the other way around?)

[aliveandkicking]

Other way or around but who cares?

Thanks for the props.

[tristan]

Hi Alive.

Figured I would stop in on your thread and say hi. The thread is long and I have no ability to read it all now, but it looks like you are about to throw in the towel (H not worth it). Am I correct?

-T

[aliveandkicking]

Just a sec Tristan, I'll explain...

BUT first. I've been dealing with H so well.

So, of course he just manned up and sent me an email asking me to come out with him Saturday to the play...

thoughts?

[Virtually_Handsome]

Well.....
He manned up.
He actually exibited good behavior.
He didn't sulk over you ignoring his bad behavior.
My reaction is to say yes.

Be warned, I am sometimes a softie, but I think he is making a step towards you. It's the kind of thing you'd like to encourage, right?

[aliveandkicking]

I think he is making a step towards you. It's the kind of thing you'd like to encourage, right?

Honestly, I don't know if I want him making steps toward me. This is really weird.

[aliveandkicking]

Just looking for a little more input...

[aliveandkicking]