Thanks for the article. Good read. And the reader comments below are good too.
I'm thinking with time our view changes. WAS think D will be the answer to their problems, make them pretty much instantly happy. My X was saying at the time of the separation he's going to have more money; I'll find someone better, the kids will be happier. I, on the other hand, thought life was pretty much over, I'd never be happy again, I couldn't live without him. I think with some time and perspective maybe everybody reaches a more moderate view than they start out with?
