Hmmm, so, there is your chance to start with her as you would with a new woman. Sounds weird? Well, everything of the past is gone. Including her assumption that she needed you. What's left? The fact that she sounds to me, like she would give it a try IF you are now the man she needs now. You both evolved. Will you be good together? Dont know...
If she indeed tries again, it will be with no declaration of reconciling. You have to woo her, seduce her, make her fall in love with you. Can you handle it? K
PS No time for you to be "mush". Be the best MAN you can be. Be sensitive to her emotions but strong and attractive.
And if you get to a point that she opens up and you hurt her again, God you are in trouble!!!
