I would continue on the track you are on. IMO..this is not about him...never has been...no matter how you or anybody here wants to tag the sitch....
it took both of you to get to where you are...by coming here you decided you wanted things to change, be better, but the only thing you can change is yourself...
I still say work on you...find your happy place..stop worrying about him, but be ever vigilant...
when I see you post from your happy place..the post is all about YOU....with maybe just a little thrown in about him updating the sitch...
save yourself...you might just save the M in the process....
and if you snoop...YOU BETTER NOT GET CAUGHT....because I believe that if he catches you then HE WILL BE DONE...
