Just curious because I don't know how this works: If you go to trial does that mean that you both present your cases and the judge decides how to split stuff up? Does adultery count as a legal reason to D (meaning cause)?
Of course it would be best for you to reach an agreement--that benefits you--beforehand but wondering if H is scared because the judge would most likely give you what you want and possibly even more due to his involvement with Catbitch.
I was thinking of you and wondering what was happening so let us know what the next steps are. If your shoe size is 7.5-8 I can lend you a pair of my kick ass heels to wear to court!
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