And the more I think about it the more I could care less is she takes me seriously.
You should. An uncontested divorce, worked out amicably thru a mediator, is only HUNDREDS of dollars. A CONTESTED divorce, with both of you retaining good (pronounced "ex-PEN-sive") family law attorneys, is THOUSANDS, and some are even TENS of thousands.
You are more likely to get what you want (and deserve) if your wife DOES take you seriously.
