a hypothetical: there is a 25 year old woman that I know who likes me. she wants to have sex w me no strings attached.. based on all the bs I have been dealing with...all the ilybnilwy, and all the other related issues, can someone please tell me why I should not have sex w the 25 year old?
I would say date other women, it will boost your confidence & self-esteem, reclaim your individuality, go through the process of looking good again, getting ready to meet other women, improving communication, and looking at all of this as an outside observer during the process. You will gain alot of self-confidence during this process: you will look & feel different afterwards because of it.
However... having sex isn't going to make you feel like more of a man, it isn't going to make you feel more attractive. All sex will do is help you exchange bodily fluids with another woman who doesn't happen to be your wife.
Plus how is sex going to help you with getting your wife back?
If you have sex with another woman while you're trying to bust your divorce, I would say at that point you are "busted". What would be the use of continuing to post here if you're able to succumb to temptation that easily what would be the use.
Having sex doesn't make you a man, watch the news: there are lots teens & pre-teens for that matter that are having sex.
