Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

[trrose]

I can't help but wonder what your role is in your marriage dynamic not working is.

Here is a partial list:

1. didnt communicate constructively when something was bothering me./
- i would withdraw when my W would nag instead of confronting the issue and how it made me feel
-i would dig at her at times instead of expressing my anger

2. i should have listened more instead of offering solutions

3. can lose my temper when my W says something that i disagree with or when i thing she says something outrageous
4. i tend to exaggerate at times and can be dramatic
5. prior to my W dropping the bomb i did not help out enough around the house with the cooking and cleaning..not fair to her since we both work.