I guess you have to ask yourself where you stand morally. As far as your question of if it happens again. What are you doing on your part that the same things that caused it to happen the first time won't be there to cause it to happen a second time?

It is hard and emotionally wears you down. We all know how that feels and we have either all been there or are there.

One of the problems is that you seem to be focusing on your current circumstances and not the outcome down the road. And yes, many times the WAW comes back and leaves again and comes back a couple of times before they finally settle back in to staying.

It does diminish your energy. But you have to find ways to refuel that energy and keep at it. What are you doing that you enjoy for yourself besides checking out that babe who wants a piece of you? What hobbies do you have? How much energy do you put into your kids lives?

If I can do this and walk away from a temptation like that feeling beat down as well, you can to. Remember your end goal. And don't count on anything lasting with a 25 year old.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...