Look at you!! I am so proud of you. I haven't done the dating thing, mostly because I seem to attract men in their 60's going through MLC!!
I think you are going to have to let the questions you have regarding your ex go. Just know that you did what you could and more than a lot of people would have even tried. The best you can do is get back on track and live an exceptional life.
I will read the article later and give you my thoughts.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory