WAW Using God

[pigskin]

Why don't you go and spend the night with her? What real objection could she have? If she pushes back it causes some concern considering the circumstances. Let her know you want to go to support her. What does your "intel" tell you, is she communicating more with OM?

If she insists you don't attend and she wants to go alone then express your concerns and what is acceptable to you and your marriage. You don't want to voice a opinion, you want to project certainty. If you have no trust then you need a boundary. This guy is a threat to your family, marriage and you. What are you wavering on?

Your wife will respect you when she sees you taking action to fight for her and your family. It's your duty as the head of your family to step up. Handle it.

Thanks coach. Since the OM is in the same office, I know they communicate daily.

She may see it as a pain in the butt since we'd have to bring all the kids, and if things were normal I doubt we'd bother with that. But it might be an interesting way to gauge her reaction. She should not have an issue with having me and the kids there; it might be fun for them. I think I'll propose that, thanks.