Regardless of what your W may be doing right now, you are married as Coach says. Are you fighting for this M or not? What kind of example are you wanting to set for your kids? That it is better to give up when things are tough and go sleep with someone? Everyone makes their own decisions, but I am strongly against this one. I understand what you are saying and that it is nice to feel attractive to someone younger and pretty. Believe me, I have been there. I had the offer with someone younger and very beautiful as well. And it was a very strong temptation. But I did not do it. I completely understand your feelings and your physical and emotional urges.

But you have to make a decision on what it is you are fighting for, your self respect, your morality if that means anything to you, what your kids will look up to you for, and if your W comes back, at least only one of you will be apologizing, not both of you.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...