Journaling: Tuesday Afternoon: Went to D5's graduation from Preschool. W was there, but I spent very litle time talking with her. She asked if I would like to walk to the store to get a little more icecream. I said I was fine either way, she said OK and went and took her mom.
WRONG ANSWER. Wishy-washy and weak.
Better: "Sounds fun; maybe a rain-check? I have to go ________ (either fill in GAL activity, or leave intentionally vague, like "have other plans I really don't want to change.")
Her touches and hugs are her way of checking to see if you're still on the other end of her string. They will INCREASE if you reject her sexually the next time, trust me.
Puppy
Puppy you are right, her touches, hugs, kisses are her way of gauging her control of him - it's subconscious at this point but it will continue and Tristan has to know this and plan accordingly.
Tristan, am I reading this right, she asked you if you wanted to go down to the store to buy some more icecream. Did she want you to go with her & her mom, or did she want you take her mom to the store to buy some icecream while she stayed behind?
