Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[mishka422]

And BFF has reacted badly to me reconciling and has stopped calling me too sadly..

What? WTH is that about? Why would she do that? Your BFF should be supportive of you no matter what your decisions are unless it is directly detrimental to your health (mental or physical).

It sounds like it probably is just the letdown from the initial excitement of being back together. You had to have felt like it was an entirely new R instead of the same old same old at first. Now, you've settled back into a contented R doing the normal mundane things that you always have. There still needs to be excitement, but it's now going to be the kind that you create willingly, not that is created from an emotional high only. KWIM?