I like the place you are at with your situation. I am familiar with hanging on too long to something not worth it. {my exh}. I am so sorry about your brother. I can't imagine how painful that must be. It must make the r pain seem lke a sick joke. If that event became the catalyst for you to push on into the future, then I think it's one of many powerful & mysterious blessings that your brother can offer you from here forward. I had my wake up call after surviving a car accident. As I was recovering from the injuries I let go of the ex. Life is too short to waste any of it pining away for some jerk. I am hopeful my current sitch will perk up in terms of XBF, if not, I certainly don't want to require another jolt of emotional shock therapy to make me wake up and drop the rope! What your stbx is doing is such a final disgusting frustrating act. Dragging his feet now after bringing you to this place. Well he can't postpone it forever, esp. with your connections! It will end and the gavel will bang. Now, what's our cocktail this eve?
I think we should have a variety of martini's this evening. The bar is open...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
K I'm ordering first. I'll have the first one flashy like blackberry or pomigranite. After that the rest will be the classic. Yum, olives soaked in vodka. What a good choice. thanks very much
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
So I ended up on the front page of the daggoned newspaper in Rochester. No, its not on Rochester's most wanted...lol. I went to church with my ex SIL and apparently the newspaper was there. They snapped a picture of me, andI have this WTF look on my face lmao!!!!
It was a strange church anyway, and the service was two hours long. eeeeek...
If you want to see it check out Rochester Democrat & Chronicle, Saturday edition.
AND NO LAUGHING...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I am so mean, but I am somewhat taking some small amount of pleasure out of this.
I got a call from the BK attorney today, and apparenty stbx is in default on the house payments. The mortgage company wants to foreclose.
So, because he couldn't keep his d!ck in his pants, he lost his wife, his steppdaughter, his furniture, his sanity, and now his house.
Think he will learn?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
wow. that's crazy. What a price to pay for some sloppy decisions. I hope you dont' mind, I'm enjoying his misery also. You're going to be sooo much better off wo him. And s4h, that's exactly it. It will all be someone else's fault. Although, I think in some cases, time brings a deeper understanding and some remorse. And if no thoughtful insight occurs, then they are doomed to repeat the same mistakes in every relationship because they are carrying their fundemental problems into them. I'm going to go look for you in the newspaper. That's pretty funny.
Oh S4H you are right. I am sure that this will be my fault. Or my D22's because she was such a horrible teenager (that was his excuse for our separation). But he forgets that I offered more than once to help, asked to move back in, and he would not allow that. Well, now it is time for him to pay for the consequences of his actions.
I don't want anything bad to happen to him. I just want him to wake up and realize he is not the only person on the face of the earth. I don't want him back, but maybe the next time he meets a nice woman, he will remember this and treat her well.
Okay maybe not, but we can hope can't we?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
And for the first time in a long time, I feel...free. I realize, and really realize, that I don't h ave to hurt anymore. My stbx did not do anything to earn my love and devotion, and now I can say I tried, and I don't want to try anymore.
And that feels really good.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
