Oh, one more addition about last night. One of my friends called. (W is friends with his W too). He offered us concert tickets to go out with them this weekend. I asked W if she was interested. Just a typical "(friend) called and offered. Do you want to go?" type attitude. Not needy, not mean.

She said she could be "uncomfortable" with that. I can get that with where we are, she wouldn't want to play happyface with our friends, but it was still somewhat hurtful. I responded "OK" and went for another long walk.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.