Whatever choice you decide to make about washing his clothes and cooking his meals, do them for the right reasons.

Do not do things out of spite, or to get back at him.

Do not be vindictive.

It is far easier to be kind and to set boundaries for yourself, then to begin daily fights with a MLC'er.

(((hugs)))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.