Originally Posted By: gucci loafer

And then don't budge on your position until he gets some help and proves he is serious about changing his behavior.



in my experience.. this last part is the hardest.

Make sure you are CRYSTAL CLEAR as to what "getting help" and "changed behaviour" looks like to you.

You are the one that will have to communicate this (cuz we all know he'll ask: What do I have to do?? Have't I done enough already?")

What standard are you willing to accept for you? and don't budge from that position either... you are worth it.

(((dudess)))

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