Reconciliation after divorce

[Sanderika]

Hi Shock,

Thanks for another post. Hope you hang with us a while.

I'm working on it.....I really am.

I'm already the better person.

H is still so far out there it isn't funny (or maybe now it's pure hilarity). I think H is entering year 6 of MLC Land. It's a reality I have lived with for so long and am so tired of. I thought this year we were seeing the end if it. We had developed great communication and a very nice friendship, albeit this has been 4 years post bomb in the making. I just recently learned some information that makes me believe that H is no where near the end. My intuitions are telling me that I am not wrong.

I don't want to reiterate all here on Bonny's thread, I have been back posting on my own all the details, fears and my thoughts and feelings about it all.

The latest thoughts that there is another OW woman are way too much for me. BTW the original OW has never been cut out of the movie.

PMA is going to be a while in returning. Got lots to sort out.

Wouldn't mind if you popped over to my thread and offered your .02!!!

I'm sorry your D happened so quickly. I somehow feel it must be better than dragging it all out like mine has. I can't get the years back we've spent in limboland. H of course has been living it up and I have been holding down the fort. This way you can feel free to do whatevah you desire. Your still young enough....you have a world of options.

Thanks Shock, I really appreciate your input.

Sanderika